Category Archives: Style
As a teacher at an all-girls’ school, I am very conscious about the way I dress. I rarely wear makeup because I want the girls to know that bare faces are socially acceptable. I dress professionally to show my students what appropriate work attire looks like, but I also love to wear bright prints and colors because I want to demonstrate that you can always find ways to let your personality shine (and, I enjoy wearing cute work outfits!). In addition, I try to be socially conscious about what I wear. I believe in fair labor practices, and it feels wrong to pour money into companies who mistreat their labor forces. In addition, the sheer volume of clothing that Americans purchase as a whole is also startling – much of our barely-used clothing ends up in landfills, which also impacts the environment. Obviously, shopping less is one way to help curb this problem, and I figured that second-hand stores would be a first step in becoming a more conscious shopper. In addition, I continued to hold hope that I could be stylish AND a good citizen!
I used to be a big thrift shopper in college, but hadn’t been back since. I’m sorry I stopped because I was AMAZED at the variety of styles and quality of the clothes offered! First, basics are super easy to acquire. Button down shirts and jeans come in every color and style, so you can pretty much find whatever you want. When Bermuda shorts became a hot item on the style blogs last year, department and chain stores were a bit behind the trend, but on my first visit to Crossroads, I snagged a pair of Gap shorts for $10 🙂 They were well-constructed and fit like a glove! Below, you can see the shorts on the left, and a button-down men’s shirt I snagged at the Goodwill for $7 on the right.
One of the things I hate shopping for is going-out attire. It’s not that I dislike that kind of attire – I just hardly go out! And then I spend on a lot of money on an outfit that I wear maybe once or twice. It did take a little more effort to find those kinds of outfits second-hand, either because they’re popular or because I don’t have the same taste as most teenage and 20-something girls, but below are two pieces I adore. The first is a zig-zag tube top that is goes great with either white pants or a skirt. The second is a sheer, pleated skirt that is super fun – it’s light and breezy and can be dressed up or down. I love that they’re both unique (one of them has a tag from some random boutique store I’ve never heard of), and I paid less than $20 for both pieces!
Lastly, there is the opportunity to buy high-end items on consignment, and I will never pay full-price for a designer piece again. Purses are especially easy to find on ebay or in local consignment stores, and each are good about screening for condition and authenticity. Besides the fact that you obviously save money buying second-hand, most brand-name handbags remain classic in design, so there’s no reason you need to buy the latest style to keep up with the trends. And although designer goods are obviously high-quality, you are really paying those extra big bucks for the name, and I loathe that. This lets me feel like I’m sticking it to the man a bit 😉
Below is my Christmas gift to myself – a limited-edition Coach purse. It was originally $425, but I got it for $100, and it looked brand new. The best part is, they had it available in coral and black, so my mom now owns the matching one 🙂
What I like best about this exercise is that I learned that I don’t necessarily have to compromise my style or budget with my principles – I just need to be more creative. It’s easy to feel powerless when dealing with a global issue, but I really think if we all make small steps, we can make a bigger difference. I’d love to hear about your socially conscious shopping finds!
I love to dress up, but as both a photographer and a teacher, I spend a lot of time on my feet and value comfort as well. Midway into the school year, I am always ready to give up on style and just wear my running shoes with every single outfit. Not that I think there’s anything wrong with that – in fact, that’s exactly what my mom does, and it looks adorable with her nursing uniforms – but it really wouldn’t look right with my favorite work outfits.
To remedy the situation, my first idea was obviously to try on as many shoes as possible and see which ones worked for me style and comfort-wise. Lifestride is a brand that consistently checks both boxes, and, oddly enough, Crocs is producing heels and flats that actually look like real shoes! In the last two years, I’ve patiently searched and made thoughtful choices, and now have a decent collection of professional footwear. But as happy as I’ve been with each pair, they still can be difficult to stand in for 8-hour stretches. I do not easily give up on my goals though, and am always looking for ways to maneuver around obstacles (it’s the engineer in me). Last summer, I decided to do some more research and finally solve this fashion puzzle.
I thought about what makes all my athletic shoes comfortable, and it all has to do with foot position. My dad always bought me specialized insoles and arch supports for my basketball shoes and running shoes, and my mom even had custom orthotic inserts made for me. All these products allow my feet to rest in their natural posture. Alternatively, heels place all the weight on the ball of my foot, and flats are just too… flat! Even flats make my arches sink and knees ache. I’ve tried putting the above mentioned inserts into my dress shoes, but they were always too big. Enter Superfeet. Superfeet makes two products specifically for dress shoes that have made standing for 8 hours relatively painless – Black Delux Dress Fit and Black Delux High Heel (and I really like their athletic insoles too). Both of these low-profile inserts fit into all of my dress shoes, which also means I can keep my current collection as is!
If you have never purchased orthotics, you may wonder how a hard piece of plastic could make standing comfortable. Orthotics are molded to your feet, with the plastic hugging your arches and supporting your weight so it is evenly distributed throughout the entire foot (even the high-heel inserts do this!). I don’t notice they’re in my shoes at all. The other great thing about them is you only need one pair – a little piece of velcro keeps them from slipping in your shoe, while still allowing you to switch them out. The black color also blends nicely into your dress shoes.
Lastly, to get my foot in its ideal posture, I finally found the piece de resistance – toe spacers. I also happen to have bunions, and if you’ve wondered what those are, they’re those bumps on the side of each foot in the photo below (between my big toe and arch). I used to constantly stretch my big toe away from my other toes to relive my bunion pain. After perusing SkyMall on vacation (gotta love SkyMall), I found that there were such a thing as bunion correctors that effectively did the same thing. I looked into purchasing them on Amazon, and stumbled upon these bad boys that I can wear all day with my dress, walking and athletic shoes. Now, my feet are never sore. The only downside is that they are noticeable if your shoes have a low vamp, but since I already hate toe cleavage all my shoes already hide them pretty well.
Good luck shopping, and remember – beauty isn’t always pain 😉 If you have some additional shoe magic that works for you, leave a comment!